Etiquette



Lately I have been noticing that brides don’t know the difference between an escort card and a place card. A place card is placed at each seat of the tables with the name of your guest. An escort card is on a table with everyone’s cards and the guest takes it and it “escorts” them to their seat. I hope this helps and now you know what the difference is between the two!

 

    


When to tip? When to gift? What’s the difference?

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I was just asked this question again.  But before I answered, I felt we should clarify the difference. With a new “crop” of brides every 12-18 months, many of the changes in the industry are only “new” for a year, but often less than 5 years, for maybe an average of 2-3 years, which is then only about 3 to 4 wedding “cycles.”  

From Trend vs. fad is a marketing question | Business First, the distinction is actually quite simple. Fads are short-lived. Think Tickle Me Elmo, foam parties and South Park. Fads follow a classic cycle: insider discovery, followed by media ballyhoo, followed by mainstream embrace.

Trends, on the other hand, have staying power. Think the revival of interest in religion and the use of lifestyle drugs. Trends take longer to build and their effects may be felt for years, even decades.
Trends have deeper cultural roots than fads.
Read more: Trend vs. fad is a marketing question | Business First

I read this blog:  http://blogcritics.org/culture/article/trends-vs-fads/.  To summarize:

For most people, the terms “trend” and “fad” are used interchangeably. When the media tell us “what’s hot” they label them as trends. Someone who wears the latest fashions or has obscure new music on their iPod is called “trendy.” But maybe they should be “faddy.” This could be just a discussion of semantics, but perhaps there is a difference.

Dr. Dre on “Encore,” the title song from Eminem’s latest album:
I’m a trend, I set one every time I’m in/ I go out and just come back full circle again/You a fad that means you something that we already had/ But once you’re gone you don’t come back/ Too bad, you’re off the map now radar can’t even find you.

In other words, fads are short-term fanaticisms; a blip in culture time whereby it seems the whole world is joined in the same craze. Exciting and electric as they are, they burn out fast. Dre points out that fads are generally not missed once they are gone. We want fad amnesia, to forget them and bury them away. At least until the next generation revives them as retro goofs. That’s because they stand for a certain point in time that we have moved past.

Trends, though, may represent long-term changes or movements that are substantial to society. They become part of our DNA, even though they may begin with just a few people, the trendsetters.

I think of wedding “trends” of the past few years – chocolate fountains, eiffel tower vases, various color combinations that were “in” and are now “out.”   We’re talking wedding “fads” here, not trends.  Wedding trends are “traditional” and “lasting,” like color font thermographed invitations and embellishments. 

Read more: http://blogcritics.org/culture/article/trends-vs-fads/#ixzz1FNDGnwfL or http://www.bizjournals.com/buffalo/stories/1999/12/20/smallb2.html


I have to share when I find something really unique for bridesmaid luncheons or even wedding party gifts. Delightful site to share with fellow tea lovers in the Orlando area. Check out Trish’s Teas in Balwin Park, http://www.trishsteas.com. But to really learn about putting on a proper tea, this website is a wealth of information. For example, when was tea introduced in America?
In the year 1658 tea is served and sold publicly for the first time in America. In the year 1660 tea is introduced by the Dutch colonists to America in the settlement called New Amsterdam, which later became New York. The same year England levied the first tax on tea. This tea tax was one of the factors that lead to American resistance to British rule and ultimately the Boston Tea Party in December 16, 1773.
http://www.trishsteas.com/teafacts/tea_facts.php#whatteatoserve
And for those that might not know about it – another well-kept secret is the tea room at Vintage Vines, located conveniently in “The Gatherings” at 2630 Edgewater Drive, Orlando Florida. Contact Karin Wilkinson at 407 770-0855.
Just in time for a cup of tea…..more later….


My good friend and colleague posted this on her blog. I couldn’t say it better. JoieDeVie Blog